what is my comunities biggest prob?

In my community the biggest problem is that sometimes we have an issue when one girl wants to have special treatment and she does not get what she wants. Or sometimes a few girls can be to nosy and they do not respect others. Then sometimes it is just when one person is not having a good day others do not know how to leave one girl alone. But it is so easy the way we settle it and every thing because we have a group chat and then usually it gets solved pretty fast.